March 25th, 2010
Stealing From Children: A Great Injustice Of Workplace Bullying In America's Schools
Guest essay by Matt Spencer, EdD, veteran school administrator and HR professional, connecting the dots between workplace bullying in the schools and its impact on students.
“The workplace bully in America’s schools is a taker…a robber…a thief. The bully steals the dignity, self-esteem, confidence, joy, happiness, and quality of life of the targeted victim. But when the target is a teacher, a great injustice occurs because the bully robs the students of what they want, need, and deserve…. A great tragedy occurs everyday in America’s schools as thousands of children are robbed by the workplace bully of the RIGHT to be nurtured and taught by such honorable, caring, outstanding educators.”
Through the years, I have personally identified a small number of what I refer to as “pillar entities” that, in my view, exist to preserve and perpetuate what is good and right and best in our society. I put government, education, religion, healthcare, and a few others in this category. When the devastating malady of workplace bullying is found to exist within these entities, and flourishes in some cases, the magnitude of the impact is multiplied exponentially. One would think that such altruistic institutions that attract devoted, service oriented people would be immune from such devastating elements. But unfortunately, they are not as “one bad apple” is hired now and then. When workplace bullying occurs in these institutions, not only is the employee seriously impacted, but as the quality of service provided by the target diminishes due to bullying, the detrimental effect is transferred onto the lives of people these institutions serve.
For much of my career in education, I have been a human resource professional. For more than 25 years, I have been directly responsible as a Principal, Director, Assistant Superintendent, and Superintendent of Schools for hiring staff members to work at various sites or departments in the school districts where I served. I have always approached my work in selecting individuals for employment based on a philosophical perspective that developed from actual conversations I had years ago with students and parents.
I noted the answer they gave to the one question asked: “Describe the school you wish to attend (or for the parent, the school you want your child to attend) as if it was a person. Fill in the blank….”I want my school (or my child’s school) to be a place that is ______________.” The collective voice of these students and parents was the desire for the school to be a place that provided an outstanding education in a caring, loving, accepting, nurturing, and encouraging environment. The parents and students wanted the school to be a place where the staff did not judge or limit students on what problems or issues they may have now….where they come from, their home situation, their socioeconomic status, etc. Rather, the staff to be able to see beyond today and into the future…what the student could be…and did everything possible to help the student get there!
The collective voice of those students and parents became the foundation for my personal philosophy that has guided my work as a human resource professional ever since. In the interview phase of any selection process, I have made it a practice to never ask a question of candidates about what they know and what they can do (the knowledge, skills, and competencies essential for success in the job) before I probe into their personality and character. I know from experience that the greatest school employees are the ones who not only have outstanding skills in their area of expertise, but also have the essential foundation of what I refer to as the “heart and character of an educator.”
If in the first phase of the interview it is found that the candidate’s character, personality, heart, and other essential qualities match the criteria mentioned above, then he/she continues in the process to determine the level of knowledge, skills, and competencies they possess. When I find someone with both components…quality character and outstanding skills, I hire them! In my view of the grand scheme of things, I know that if each and every person we hire in our school district is caring, loving, accepting, nurturing, and encouraging, over the course of time the school and the school district will become that way too.
In education, what happens in the classroom between the teacher and student is where “the rubber meets the road.” So, let me begin to narrow this down to make a point about the impact of workplace bullying on the loss of productivity in schools. Let’s talk about what happens when a school hires an outstanding teacher who becomes the victim of a workplace bully.
As I shared, I know that students (1) want a teacher who is caring, loving, accepting, nurturing, encouraging, etc…and (2) has the essential knowledge and skills so crucial to being an effective teacher. When I find such teachers, I know I have found wonderful, capable professionals who can’t wait to come to work each day and give every ounce of their passion, care, talents, and skills to their students…what the students want, need and deserve from their teacher. You can envision how it unfolds as the school year begins. Within the first few days of school, the students quickly realize they are blessed with a teacher who is not only an outstanding teacher, but one who truly loves and cares about them…wants the very best for them…sees beyond today and envisions a bright future for each and every one of the students. The students and teacher look forward to class, they are never late or absent because they don’t want to miss an opportunity to gather together, share, learn, and grow.
These great teachers are they the ones that students throughout the years have voiced and written great expressions of thanks and appreciation for the impact made on their lives. You, I would be hopeful, have been impacted by at least one such teacher in your life. Even today, many years later, when you think their name and recall the memories of those learning experiences, a smile comes to your face and your heart warms.
And if a teacher who touched your life in this manner walked through the door of your home or office today, even though you may not have seen them in years, you would warmly greet them, embrace them, and unreservedly ask if there is anything you could do for them. Why? From the day you first met, you knew in your heart that this teacher loved you, cared for you, and devoted themselves to being there every day to give you their best so you could realize your goals, your potential, and your dreams.
Each year, outstanding teachers such as these are hired for service in schools all across America. They can’t wait to get to work in their classroom at their new school and begin the process I described above…loving and caring for their students and giving them an outstanding educational experience everyday!
But it’s only a matter of time when to many of these teachers finds themselves in the crosshairs of a bully; a predator that roams the halls of their school looking for a victim. The bully could be an administrator, a fellow teacher, a custodian, or anyone in the organization. But the bully has selected a teacher as a target and begins the devastating assault on this unsuspecting servant of the common good. Day after day the bully selects the tactic, the place and the time to unload on the undeserving target in the hallways, offices, and workrooms of the school. Incapable of stopping the assault, the barrage on the target continues and the predictable effects of workplace bullying begin to be revealed and take their toll. The loss of sleep, nausea before coming to work, anxiety, hypersensitivity, depression and other symptoms systematically set in.
The schoolhouse which was once a place of honorable service has now become a chamber of horrors. Before the bullying began, this teacher would be there every day, eager to share the learning experiences custom-crafted to meet the student’s needs. But to avoid the unbearable suffering that will be inflicted by the bully, the teacher exhibits avoidance behavior and does not report to work. All available sick, vacation, and personal time is used. And as the days, weeks, and months go by, the once high-quality educational classroom experiences enjoyed by well-deserving students given by an eager, caring, loving teacher slowly and significantly erode.
The quality learning experiences the students once enjoyed degrade into mediocrity and ineffectiveness. As is tragically the case in 64% of the time, this once outstanding teacher, now a remnant of his/her former self is forced into resignation, quits, or is fired. Perhaps like so many others who have been bullied at work, this educational professional never teaches again.
The workplace bully in America’s schools is a taker…a robber…a thief. The bully steals the dignity, self-esteem, confidence, joy, happiness, and quality of life of the targeted victim. As a workplace bully victim, I fully and completely understand the pain and suffering one endures. But when the target is a teacher, a great injustice occurs because the bully robs the students of what they want, need, and deserve…a teacher who loves them, cares for them…who comes to work everyday and gives all that he/she has so that these wonderful, deserving children receive an outstanding education…the foundation of becoming whatever they want and dream to be! A great tragedy occurs everyday in America’s schools as thousands of children are robbed by the workplace bully of the RIGHT to be nurtured and taught by such honorable, caring, outstanding educators.
Educators are constantly looking to identify problems and issues that inhibit the delivery of a high-quality education to our students. From my perspective, the workplace bullying phenomenon in America’s schools is something we can and must do something about. Boards of Education, working in partnership with the Administration and staff, can and must take a stance against this growing workplace malady that is eroding the quality of education in America.
The workplace bullies in America’s schools must be stopped from continually robbing our students of the high-quality of education they deserve.
Matt Spencer, Ed.D.
Director of Classified Personnel
Desert Sands Unified School District
La Quinta, California
Tags: bullied teachers impact students, education, HR, teacher bullying, workplace bullying in schools
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I was the target of workplace bullying where I was assistant to the special education teacher in an elementary school. I had worked at this position, quite successfully, for five years and brought 4 years experience from working in this field in other schools in the district.
I experienced every ‘side effect’ you mention in this article from avoidance to nausea to using all my sick, and vacation days. The principal saw it was so bad that he put me on medical leave after I passed out one day from sheer exhaustion from sleepless nights and anxiety over what my supervising teacher might pull on me next. I wound up in the emergency room for over 7 hours.
I still struggle to come to to terms over just what happened to me there. I grieve for my loss, the students in my care, the papers I graded and the books we read. The times we shared discovering just how multiplication works and just what a right angle is! These days and times were stolen from me–and this article brings to light how they were stolen from the students I worked with as well. I can only hope this woman does not continue on a path destroying the life of someone she must have perceived as a threat to her own position. I’d like to join a campaign to address this very real issue in America’s schools if ever there was to be one. Thank you, Matt Spencer, for writing this. I find peace in knowing that you are out there trying to do something to help.
Mary Lou, Get involved in your state to enact our anti-bullying law that would have given you and your supportive principal justification for dismissing the teacher. We have Coordinators in 29 states. Visit the Healthy Workplace Bill website. GN
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am so sorry that you ran into a bully who took away your opportunity to touch the lives of so many students. I fully understand the pain you endured of being a bully victim and also know how your heart aches for the students who were robbed of such a caring educational profession to care, nurture, and teach them each day. Those wonderful experiences you and your student enjoyed together have been stolen from all of you by a workplace bully.
I understand what you mean by “coming to terms with what happened to you.” It is really hard to understand “why” it happened to you…and to me…and to so many others. We just were victims of a random act of emotional and mental violence so to speak. It is hard to understand how bad things happen to good people…but bad things sometimes do happen to good people. I tend to look at these bad times that happen in our lives as “tests of our character”. We get knocked down…beat down sometimes….but because we are strong and committed, we vow to get up and be better, smarter, and stronger and to return to a place of wholeness where we can honor our heart’s desire to help others.
I hope that you are safe and are getting some answers to the many questions that go through our minds as workplace bully victims. I hope that you are still in education somewhere, and have the opportunity to give of your care, concern, and talents to children. If not, maybe you are working in another helping profession or soon will be!
As you can tell from my thoughts expressed in the essay, I am passionate about schools being safe places for kids to learn and adults to work. Let’s do what we can to spread the word that “everyone should learn to play nice at school….the adults too!”
Take care. Again, thanks for your kind words…I am so glad they were comforting and helpful to you.
I too was a target of bullying, but it took place in a community college setting. After many years in administration, I moved into the college’s development office with hopes of making a difference for students struggling to make it through college. The better I got at my job, the worse I was treated by my supervisors and colleagues. I eventually lost that job. Ultimately, it is the students and faculty I so passionately worked to serve who suffered. I am now working for a local school district and doing what I love most—nurturing student success. Ditto “I find peace in knowing that you are out there trying to do something to help.”
This is an exraordinarily important issue, and many school employees will no doubt be grateful to find that it is more pervasive than personal. Just that alone should bring comfort to targets of bullying. I echo those respondents’ comments that related to some or all of the causes and effects of being the target. The losses experienced by all concerned are devastating and inexcusable. Once joyful, passionate people become quite depleted, and the fear instilled in them robs them of very basic belief in their strengths, gifts, and dreams held for their professionalism and impact on students’ futures. This does result in loss of productivity, creativity, zeal, and self-esteem in the professional, which translates to maximum losses in student progress and sense of being in a safe, nurturing learing environment. Students and their parents question whether or not this professional is the same enthusiastic person they met in the recent past. Those professionals are scrutinized and marginalized to such a degree that their ability to just “cope” is shattered. Their reports of abuse are shrugged off as so much noise from an incompetent, lazy, whining, needs-to-leave-the-profession-anyway individual. Keep up the good work. Many thanks for broaching a topic that has been ignored for far too long!
I was bullied out of my career after 13 years of succussful teaching. I sought help through my union, school board, the DPI, the EEOC, and finally hired my own lawyer. I was forced into resigning to keep insurance for my daughter until I can find another job (outside of the the career I worked so hard to build.)
The sad fact? People don’t care. This admin assaulted me in my classroom, and it was witnessed by many. The police came and issued him a disorderly conduct citation for his conduct. When the admin continued to harass me later that day, I threatened a restraining order. The response? Admin leave for me.
When the Union rep finally met with all involved, he told me that I would be terminated if I followed through with criminal charges. If I didn’t, then I would only receive a letter in my file….really. How can this be? The harassment continued, and now I am searching for a new career as I battle severe depression.
No one in power in Wisconsin cares-sad, but true.